I would like to thank you for visiting this website in which you will discover proven method for winning your ex boyfriend back. In this website, I am going to show you techniques that I discover in my eight years of experience as a relationship coach. With the help of these techniques you able to get your ex back in your life once again.
It is sad to see there are 60% relationships in America that ends up in divorce. Therefore, my main objective of creating this website is to help all women in understanding the inner working of male psychology. The cutting-edge techniques you discover in this website will not only help you in getting your ex boyfriend back but also help you in making your relationship stronger than ever before.
During my real-life experience I saw there are many women that are having troubles in understanding their men. It seems that men all over the world are living in their own isolate world. It is very difficult to understand them as they don’t have any emotional stability. They just can’t pick up even the most obvious hints you send to them.
Thankfully, you have reached to the right place. This is because techniques and knowledge you will get from this website will not only help you in understanding how to get your ex boyfriend back but also help you in creating strong relationship. This website contains more than just simple strategies. I am 100% sure you never know the strategies that is mentioned in this website.
I discover these strategies during my eight years of experience as a relationship coach. Although every men and women are different in their own desires, way of thinking, personality and way of handling tough situation but the larger part of their relationship problems lies within common social problems that exist outside one’s uniqueness.
In my career as relationship expert, I saw same common mistakes that couple did that leads to their relationship breakup. On other hand, I saw some common actions that bring new light in their stale relationship. And more importantly, I know few common things that you (women) can do to ensure your man will love you and never leave you again.
With the help of these effective and powerful techniques you can have great power in your life and in your relationship as well.
Ok here are the steps that you have to follow to get your ex boyfriend back again.
Step 1 – Understanding Why Your Relationship Ended:
If you want to get him back then you have to remove these two misconceptions from your life:
- Your boyfriend left you because you said certain things or did something he didn’t like.
- Your boyfriend didn’t break the relationship with you just because he finds someone prettier or sexier than you
In my career, many girls keep on mentioning either one of above issues to explain the reason for their breakup. It is very important to keep in mind that your relationship doesn’t come to an end just because you said certain words or did something that lead to breakup. If your relationship with your ex boyfriend was base on solid foundation then few words or actions can’t come over the long work you did before.
Similarly, your relationship also didn’t come to an end just because your ex boyfriends finds someone prettier or sexier than you. It is crucial to understand your ex boyfriend was attract with your seductive, selective and sexier appearance and he didn’t leave you just because he finds someone sexier or seductive than you. If he didn’t like you in the first look then he never pursuit you over the other opportunities he had.
Here is the valid reasons why your relationship comes to an end:
Reason 1 – You Gave Too Much For Too Little Efforts:
This is 100% correct!!! This is the most important information you will get it from me. Based on psychological research, when it comes to humans then they value those things that they work for it.
For example, a boy comes to you in a bar and offers you to buy a drink. What will be your response? Most probably you would not value his friendship that much because you didn’t work for it. You may though of saying ‘YES’ to him but very next moment after buying drink you wouldn’t be giving any attention to him. Why? This is because you didn’t work for it.
This happens in relationship as well. If you give too much to your boyfriend for his too little efforts then he would be losing interest from the relationship. If this happens then don’t blame your ex-boyfriend. This is simply in human nature. Humans that give too much has low-esteem and in return they get less from their partner.
This doesn’t mean you have to become selfish or inwardly-oriented, you have to be mentally aware of the efforts your boyfriend is putting to see you and ensure he keeps on working for you.
The main thing to take from this is, people value those things higher they have to work for – and don’t value things that come to them too easily.
Reason 2 – Clinginess and Insecurity:
If you ask me then I would say clinginess and insecurity are two biggest unattractive behaviors that kill attraction from any relationship. It doesn’t matter how strong the relationship is, any sign of clinginess or insecurity can make any man called for quit.
If you are validation seeker to get good compliment from your boyfriend then make sure you never express this to him. Men see girls that are too needy as a ‘little sisters’ and no men in their right mind want to create relationship with ‘little sister’. Instead, they want to get into ‘big brother’ role to help them out.
Many women cope with everyday life stress by leaning to their boyfriend. Although it is fine on some occasions but doing it too much kills the relationship. This is because men are bad in understanding emotions. They don’t know how to cope with the emotion luggage they get from their girlfriend and then later they called it quit.
Reason 3 – Monotony Of Relationship:
In every relationship, there comes a time when man or women stop trying. When this happen the attraction from the relationship disappears and breakup occurs sooner or later.
The good thing is, you can surely avoid this death trap in your relationship. When you walked with your boyfriend in beginning he keeps you way from other guys and ready to fight with them. But, when he finds you are always with him then he loses the motivation to fight for you.
You as a female can avoid this from happening in your relationship by getting unpredictable to him. Always make him thinking, “Hmmm, I have to work hard on my game to keep her”. Trust me this kind of feeling work as a link to bond your relationship and keep any other women far away from your relationship.
Trust me; men crave for validation as much as women crave validation from her man. However, when monotony of relationship takes place then it kills this newly found validation from the relationship.
If you wish to avoid this Monotony of Relationship then you have to increase your value higher than the level you had before your previous relationship. You can surely increase your value with some actions that you will find later in this website but for now I want you to consider becoming the girl that you were before getting into your previous relationship.
Reason 4 – Being Overly Rigid and Tough:
No men ever attract to women who is overly rigid and tough. If you tries to take advantage of your men then you only pushing him away from you. This kills all the attraction from the relationship and sooner your boyfriend will start finding someone else who he can protect.
Always keep in mind, an attractive women to a man is someone who knows how to balance being independent and shows his softer vulnerable so his boyfriend able to ‘protect’ her. Even if you don’t want to be protected by anyone then still you have to show some vulnerability to awaken your man’s natural protection ability. A man who protects you is a man who is deeply connected with you in a relationship.
Step 1 – Conclusion (Things That Changed):
In this entire step, you learn fours reasons that are mainly responsible for the breakup. Understanding these reasons are very important for learning about how to get him back. Additionally we have defined strategies in each section that can be use to combat these faults.
The exercise for you is to think about and compare yourself with the one you were before the relationship and the person you are now. What things have changed in this period? Think back and find the reasons that attract your boyfriend and specific reasons that pushed your boyfriend away from you.
Most women always keep on thinking that they have said something or did something that leads to breakup but the truth is certain words or actions rarely contributes in full blown breakup.
Thankfully we have certain strategies, methods and techniques that can help you to win your ex back.
Let get started…
Step 2 – Ending The Contact:
If you are searching for how to get your ex boyfriend back then you need to prepare yourself for some difficult time ahead. This is because if you want to raise your value in the eyes of your boyfriend then you have to end the contact with your boyfriend at all cost.
It may be sound terrible to you but there is no way to say it in soft words so I can say it loud to you. You have to end your contact with your ex boyfriend for full 21 days. There is no exception to this rule. It doesn’t matter how much you are missing him right now you have to end contacting your ex boyfriend if you want him to get back in your life. This rule is based on strong psychological mechanism and it is proven to work.
There is one caveat to his rule and it is only when your ex boyfriend contacts you. If he contacts you then this is big positive on your side. However, when we come to the matter on our hands now then there are three reasons for going no contact with your ex boyfriend:
Reason #1 – Avoid Getting Needy: One of the reason to go no contact with your ex is you avoid looking needy to your ex boyfriend. This will also stop you from labeling yourself as insecure. As we already discussed before, insecurity and clinginess are two biggest unattractive qualities that kills all attraction from the relationship.
Reason #2 – Creates Feeling of Loss: Another reason to use no contact is, it helps in developing the feelings of loss in your ex boyfriend’s mind. Your boyfriend will start thinking why she is not calling me. He will start getting second-guessing to his decision of breaking up with you. Once he starts getting these second-guessing thoughts it will be great helpful for you.
Reason #3 – Increases Your Value: How many times you have heard people start giving value to things once they are gone. Similarly, your ex boyfriend will understand your value once he misses you. You have to reach that value and then your boyfriend will come to know how valuable you are in his life.
Reason #4 – Helps You Re-Discover Yourself: During 21 days of no contact with your ex boyfriend you can spend some time to re-discover yourself. You can read book to increase your knowledge or you can spend this time in understanding how to get your ex back.
The main objective of using no contact is it helps you to stop showing your feelings of neediness and insecurity.
After breakup you are most vulnerable to display insecurity and neediness to your boyfriend. Therefore, when your boyfriend around you it doesn’t matter how much harder you try you still send signals for neediness and insecurity.
This is completely normal and even if you don’t say verbally to your boyfriend but still your body language will send signals of neediness to your ex boyfriend. This will give the power of relationship to your ex boyfriend. However, to win him back in your life you need to get this power in your hand.
What To Do When No Contact Is Not Possible?
There are some situations when No Contact is not possible like you both are living together or have a child or work together in the same office. In this situation, you have to remember that the key to renew interest and attraction is to become a person with higher value.
When you are forced to talk with your ex boyfriend on daily bases then you have to adjust your behavior and don’t try to look jealous or needy.
If you both live in the same house then make sure to go out and spend as much time as possible with your friends. However, don’t try to bring new person in your home. This is the worst situation to get into where you and your ex boyfriend both try to ‘one up’ by bringing new people in the house.
You have to make sure your ex boyfriend to start contact with you – but keep a balance. It is important to don’t avoid or ignore your ex boyfriend as these are ill feelings. Always try to look cheerful as you came out of breakup and enjoying your life. Allow your ex boyfriend to leave the conversation and let him do most of the work while conversing with you. Think about living with a female roommate.
Another way you can become person of higher value is by dressing good without look like you are trying. When you go out then try to dress a little bit more but don’t try hard about it. Nothing is as much lower value as dressing yourself to make your ex boyfriend jealous.
Now the remaining part of this website will show you psychological and practical strategies for how to get your ex-boyfriend back that you can work with to remove the feelings of neediness and insecurity. It doesn’t matter how dreadful you are feeling inside you these strategies will surely reverse the feeling of rejection that your ex boyfriend wants you to feel. This will shift the balance of power back in your relationship.
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